Miriam Groom Interview: Using Super Strengths to Find the Right Career For You.
Ten years ago, Miriam Broom hit a breaking point. Masking her neurodivergence in the corporate world had led to health issues and burnout. Taking a step back was humbling, but it gave her the space to peel back the layers and rediscover her authentic self. She began to see her neurodivergent traits not as flaws but as superstrengths that just needed to be matched with the right roles and environments in order to flourish. Now a career therapist and founder of Mindful Career, Miriam is on a mission to help people uncover their unique strengths and align them with careers that truly allow them to thrive–just as she has.
Why Self-Acceptance Is My New Resolution
Every year, I’ve tried to start January with a clean slate, chasing the mythical “new me.” But here’s the truth: I’m done trying to fix what was never broken. This year, I’m swapping resolutions for rest, self-kindness, and patience. Instead of beating myself up for what I haven’t done, I’m embracing what it means to just be. Unmasking is a journey, and I’m ready to take the next step toward authenticity. Are you?
Lion Roars And Deep Breaths
I’ve always thought my ADHD was about focus, but I’ve come to realize it’s also deeply tied to regulation—or lack of it. When I’m dysregulated, my body doesn’t care if it’s a to-do list or a tiger on my heels—the reaction is the same: tight chest, swirling thoughts, and a rush of overwhelm. But here’s what I’ve learned: recognizing that state is step one. From there, it’s all about tools—breathing, grounding, maybe even letting out a lion’s roar—to bring myself back into balance. It’s not instant, but every time I practice, it gets easier to reset. And when I pair internal strategies with a calming external space, it’s like having an anchor in the chaos.
Living the Horizontal Life
I used to think my love for being horizontal was something to hide, but now I embrace it—it’s simply how I thrive. From working meetings in bed to turning parties into “Horizontal Lounges,” everything feels better with my feet up. Even meals and travel are optimized with the right tools, like couch-side tables or inflatable ottomans. While others stand or sit upright, I’ve found my comfort in lounging, unapologetically choosing what works best for me. Being horizontal isn’t laziness—it’s freedom.
Hiding in Plain Sight
I used to think I couldn’t be autistic because I’m so good at being social. I’ve learned to mimic conversations, laugh at the right times, and remember what faces to make when someone’s upset or happy. But then I realized: it’s all a mask. I’m constantly decoding every interaction, running mental scripts just to seem “normal.” It’s exhausting. So, I finally decided to take the mask off—and it’s been terrifying, but freeing.
